A trailer for ‘Cat Daddies‘ comes right out with it: Men who love cats are often stereotyped as oddballs.
“People see a cat dad and they think ‘Oh he must be weird and creepy,” says one guy, who is shown hilariously working out his biceps by lifting his cats in place of weights. “I feel like we’re getting to a point where it’s okay [to say] ‘Yeah, I have cats.'”
Another man recalled a conversation with his college buddies in which one of them floated the idea of adopting a few cats.
“The reaction was ‘No man, you can’t do that,'” he says with an amused look on his face.
Of course, PITB readers know it’s perfectly natural for men to love cats, especially cats as muscular, intimidating and tiger-like as Buddy.
But if you’ve ever wondered what the experience is like for guys who want to adopt kitties, ‘Cat Daddies’ takes a look at several men from different backgrounds and their beloved felines, from a homeless man in New York who won’t part with his tabby even it means he won’t get housing, to an Instagram star whose rise to fame has been propelled by his feline masters.
Californians can catch the documentary in person, and help fund a good cause, at an April 16 screening in Long Beach, CA, on behalf of the Little Lion Foundation. The California-based nonprofit specializes in caring for neonatal and young, abandoned kittens, as most shelters aren’t equipped to care for them and such kittens are often euthanized if they land in an animal control or kill shelter.
For the rest of us, check out the Cat Daddies site for a list of virtual screenings and festival events.
A grieving woman explains why she’s cloning her late cat
Kris Stewart adopted Bear, a five-year-old ragdoll “with a big, bold, sassy look,” in March of 2021.
Stewart, the CEO of a senior care company in Canada, described Bear as “the smartest animal I’ve ever owned,” and said the resourceful cat could work out how to open locked doors and windows.
“What I didn’t realize was his need for adventure and exploring,” she wrote in a column for Newsweek.
After “cat-proofing” her backyard and taking Bear on walks via a harness, Stewart decided the ragdoll needed to be outside to be happy. Bear “was off-leash by May 2021,” she wrote.
“Then, one day in January 2022, I let him out about 4.30pm and within about 20 minutes I heard something, saw cars backing up down the street and ran outside. Bear had been hit. Obviously it was my fault. I’m his guardian and I made the wrong decision, and I have to live with that.”
Stewart acknowledges that cloning is a process that involves mistakes, although it’s not clear if she’s aware just how gruesome the process can be. Likening it to “human parents who want to go through IVF rather than adopt,” she said she’s hoping the clone will have the same temperament as her beloved Bear.
“I would much rather replicate Bear’s genetic material into another cat than adopt again because I would love to see the personality of Bear live on,” she wrote. “He was the most brilliant animal I’ve ever owned. Research tells us that a significant portion of personality is carried in genes so I’m willing to take the chance. I’ve said before that Mother Earth is not finished with Bear and Bear is not finished with Mother Earth. So, if I can bring back his genetic material in the form of another cat, I would like to do that. If their personalities are a little different, that’s OK, I’ll be happy regardless.”
It’s clear Stewart is devastated by losing Bear, and we don’t want to sound callous by criticizing her decision. Grief leads people to do all sorts of things, and there’s no “correct” way to cope. We all handle it differently.
At the same time, it’s wishful thinking to believe a clone is somehow a continuation of the original, or that cloning can bridge the considerable gap between nature and nurture. That’s just not how it works. Sadly, Mother Earth is done with Bear — there’s no continuity of consciousness.
Even in science fiction stories where cloning technology is flawless and human cloning somehow exists despite considerable moral and religious objections, it’s clear that cloning is, well, cloning: Even if the clone is perfect in every way, even if the process manages to faithfully reproduce personality and memories can somehow be transferred, there is no “bridge” between the original and the copy. For the person who is cloned, life ends when their consciousness blinks out, and nothing can resurrect it.
We hope Stewart finds peace and loves her new cat, but we don’t believe cloning is right answer when grieving the loss of a pet.
5 thoughts on “Sunday Cats: ‘Cat Daddies’ Documentary, Misconceptions About Cloning”
I agree. No animal can ever take the place of one we have lost. I wish more than anything I could have my favorite kitty still. But he is gone and no cloned version would be the same. Besides, instead of honoring his life, isn’t cloning an insult to his uniqueness? If we could just replace someone (animal or man) with an exact copy, what value would an individual hold?
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Well said, Lisa! I totally agree.
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There iss NOTHIN wrong with beein a Cat Daddy inn mee humbell opinion Big Buddy!! Sadly mee Cat Daddy was too ruff with mee an then threw mee out alot an mee went semi-feral….so mee will admit mee NOT like Hu’man Men much. Mee tryin to get over THE trauma. An mee nose there are good an bad Cat Meowmyss’ too.
BellaSita Mum has her ruff momintss butt shee allwayss givess mee treetss an *kissess* an tellss mee shee lovess mee.
As fore THE lady inn THE cloning story…well both BellaSita Mum an mee think cloning iss wrong an that purrhapss THE lady iss driven bye guilt fore lettin Bear off lead…
Iss furry sad. How efurr wee feel shee shuud greeve an then adopt a mew kitt or cat an start makin mew memorieess….
**nose rubss** BellaDharma an ((hugss)) BellaSita Mum
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I agree with you, but unfortunately it’s true that we do get crap sometimes for being cat servants. 🙂 Which is absurd, obviously, since Buddy is the manliest and scariest pet imaginable. I mean, look at him!
Sorry to hear Bella was abused in her earlier days, but I’m happy that she’s found you.
Iss OKay mee had a bad time; it iss nice to bee ehre an know mee iss loved. An to have foodabullss an treetss! An bedss an toyss….
Gotta look forewerd….try not to look back… 😉
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